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Winning ex’s trust – and time with son – once sober

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 20:28:57 GMT

Q. I messed up a year ago and passed out drunk while my wife was out and I was taking care of our 2-year-old.  He was fine but she lost all trust in me.  I spent the last year getting sober.  I’ve held a job, stayed sober and went by to spend time with her and our son whenever she allowed.  Despite my efforts she told me last week that she is not interested in taking me back.I understand but I don’t want to lose our son in this process.  She has refused to let me spend any time alone with him since that night.  She works for the court and keeps telling me that no judge is going to let me spend time with our son until he is 12 unless she is present so I shouldn’t even bother fighting her on this.  Is she right?  Is there anything I can do now that I’m not already doing to win back some trust?A. First of all, she is not right.  The fact that you are now sober and doing the hard work to improve your life and your health is important and won’t go unnoticed.  That being said, it is hard ...

Dear Abby: Silence replaces a 40-year friendship

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 20:28:57 GMT

Dear Abby: I have been friends with a woman I’ll call “Blanche” for 40 years. We used to work together, and we supported each other during our divorces and other life problems. We lost touch for a time, then reconnected. I kept in touch with her for years through email at her work. We both are on Facebook, and she knows how to contact me.Since she retired six months ago, I haven’t heard from her. She comments online and “likes” things I post, but that’s it. I have now blocked her and moved on, which may seem harsh, but the story is too long to explain. I was depressed early on, but I’m over it now. I had to accept that she no longer wanted to continue our friendship. And yes, we have discussed this before. Am I wrong to let it go and move on? — Over It in North CarolinaDear Over It: Sometimes in life we must make a conscious decision to do what’s right for ourselves. In a case like the one you have described, it is not only...

Recapping the Chicago Bulls: Zach LaVine leads comeback win against the Houston Rockets, moving Bulls into final play-in spot

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 20:28:57 GMT

Three days after blowing out the best team in the Western Conference, the Chicago Bulls gritted out a win over the worst team in the West, erasing a double-digit deficit for a 119-111 win over the Houston Rockets on Saturday night.Neither the Rockets nor Bulls are prolific 3-point shooting teams — but for the second time this season, that didn’t matter when they faced off. The Rockets average only 32.5 attempts — and 10.6 makes — from 3-point range. But in their December meeting, they went 17-44 from behind the arc to blow out the Bulls 133-118.The Rockets repeated the high-volume shooting performance on their home court Saturday, going 9-for-16 from 3-point range in the opening half while the Bulls kept pace at 8-for-18. Both teams were on track to finish well above their averages after the third quarter — the Rockets went 15-for-23 and the Bulls 13-for-26.But the game was ultimately decided from inside the arc. The teams took only 15 combined shots fr...

The Weeknd wins big at pre-telecast Junos, Arkells take sixth group of the year award

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 20:28:57 GMT

TORONTO — The Weeknd has another armful of Juno Awards for his shelf this year, but the Canadian superstar didn’t show up in Edmonton to accept them. Despite cleaning up in all four categories where he was nominated — including artist of the year — the Toronto pop singer was nowhere to be found at a Junos pre-telecast event where most awards are handed out.The Weeknd, whose real name is Abel Tesfaye, also pocketed single of the year for “Sacrifice,” pop album for “Dawn FM” and songwriter of the year for many hits he co-wrote for the album.Other musicians vaulted obstacles to make the Junos, including members of Arkells who battled flight cancellations in Newfoundland. Three of them made flights in time to win their sixth group of the year honour.“I think it’s important to show support,” explained a sleep-deprived Max Kerman.“We have a really good life as musicians and I think showing up is part of being part of the community.R...

Oscars look to snap back a year after The Slap

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 20:28:57 GMT

LOS ANGELES (AP) — It’s almost time to give the Academy Awards a big hand. OK, maybe we should rephrase that. A year after Will Smith strode on stage at the Dolby Theatre and slapped Chris Rock in the face, the Oscars will reconvene Sunday for a ceremony that will try to move past one of the most infamous moments in Academy Awards history. The telecast from the Dolby in Los Angeles begins at 8 p.m. EDT on ABC. The broadcast can be streamed with a subscription to Hulu Live TV, YouTubeTV, AT&T TV and Fubo TV. You can also stream the show on ABC.com and on the ABC app by authenticating your provider.Jimmy Kimmel, the show’s first solo emcee in five years, is hosting for the third time. The late-night comedian has promised to make some jokes about The Slap; it would be “ridiculous” not to, he said. Bill Kramer, chief executive of the film academy, has said that it was important, given what happened last year, to have “a host in place who can really pivot and manage those moments.”“N...

New York coach slams Allianz Field’s snow removal in Loons’ opener

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 20:28:57 GMT

Major League Soccer’s new Apple TV streaming service includes visiting coaches holding postgame news conferences in front of local media members.And, boy, was the first session at Allianz Field contentious on Saturday.New York Red Bulls coach Gerhard Struber commended his players for how they responded to the snowy pitch in a 1-1 draw with Minnesota United, but he called the amount of snow cover on the field “unprofessional.”“I have absolutely no understanding,” Struber said. “It’s under-18, a youth team moment when I was so surprised when I got outside and I cannot see green (grass). Whatever the reason (is) for that. But this is very, very unprofessional. I have a completely different expectation how this should play in this league, on this level.”RELATED: In snow, Loons slip up and settle for 1-1 draw with Red BullsWhen it was Adrian Heath’s turn at the dais, the Loons manager added: “I was disappointed there was so much snow on the field.”The potential problems were apparent 90 ...

3 suspects arrested for breaking into 48 cars in Millbrae: sheriff

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 20:28:57 GMT

SAN MATEO COUNTY, Calif. (KRON) -- Three suspects were arrested Saturday morning in connection to 48 car burglaries across Millbrae, the San Mateo County Sheriff's Office (SMCSO) said in a press release. Throughout that morning, authorities received reports of about 48 cars being burglarized in the city. Driver, passenger arrested after chase leads CHP from Contra Costa County into Oakland Around 10:27 a.m., SMCSO deputies were notified of a stolen Hyundai near the Millbrae Avenue and US-101 intersection. As they were driving through the Westin Hotel on Old Bayshore Highway, the deputies heard a car alarm go off and learned a car's window was smashed.Shortly after, a witness reported the stolen Hyundai crashed into a house on Helen Drive and Tioga Drive -- approximately two miles away from the Westin Hotel. Three males were then seen running away from the car, jumping fences and entering the nearby Green Hills Country Club, according to the release. SMCSO deputies were eventually...

Filipowski, No. 21 Duke beat No. 13 Virginia for ACC title

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 20:28:57 GMT

GREENSBORO, N.C. (AP) — Jon Scheyer stood on the stage, wiping his brow as he scanned the bubbly crowd while his Duke players danced around the Atlantic Coast Conference Tournament championship trophy.That’s when Kyle Filipowski walked up behind his coach and wrapped an arm around him.The youthful Blue Devils — from their freshmen to their 35-year-old rookie head coach — could savor a moment that felt oh-so-familiar for the blueblood program.Filipowski had 20 points and 10 rebounds as the tournament’s most valuable player and No. 21 Duke locked down defensively to beat No. 13 Virginia 59-49 in Saturday night’s ACC tournament championship, securing a title in Scheyer’s debut season as the successor to Hall of Fame coach Mike Krzyzewski.“Coming in, everyone was talking about, ‘We’re too young, Scheyer’s first year,’” freshman guard Tyrese Proctor said while standing amid confetti strewn about the court. “We just stuck together all year and just didn’t give up.”...

Oscars 2023 live updates: Latest news from carpet, show

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 20:28:57 GMT

LOS ANGELES (AP) — Follow along for real-time updates on the 2023 Oscars from The Associated Press — on the decidedly not red carpet, inside the Dolby Theatre and behind the scenes. Live updates are brought to you by AP journalists in Los Angeles and around the country.___OSCARS PREDICTIONSAP Film Writers Jake Coyle and Lindsey Bahr are pros at the predictions game — but the unexpected can always happen. Last year, Coyle edged out Bahr in predicting the eventual wins. We’ll see who wins tonight, but until then: Read their predictions and check out the interactive Oscar ballot at the end.___For more Oscars coverage, visit https://apnews.com/hub/academy-awardsSource

Schwarber’s 3-run homer sends U.S. past Great Britain in WBC

Published Mon, 16 Dec 2024 20:28:57 GMT

PHOENIX (AP) — Kyle Schwarber launched a three-run homer, Nolan Arenado had three hits and two RBIs, and the United States overcame a slow start to beat Great Britain 6-2 on Saturday night in the World Baseball Classic opener for both teams.Trayce Thompson put Britain up 1-0 in the first inning with a homer off Adam Wainwright that just cleared the left-center wall. Thompson — who plays for the Los Angeles Dodgers — is one of the few players on Britain’s roster with big league experience.Thompson’s drive briefly put a damper on the mood for the crowd of 39,650 at Chase Field, but the Americans weren’t down long.The U.S. grabbed a 2-1 lead in the third and then broke the game open in the fourth on Schwarber’s shot that landed in the stands near the swimming pool that sits behind the right-center fence at Chase Field.In Tokyo, Shohei Ohtani had another RBI double, 21-year-old right-hander Roki Sasaki reached 100 mph 21 times in 66 pitches and Japan beat the Cze...